The Last Goals Post
Goal Post - see how I made that a Football reference? Not really, I just happened but this is the last in my posts about how to not reach your goals.
When we set goals we expect to make them a reality but as you have seen in the previous posts that doesn't always happen. Another way we sabotage our goals is by letting jealousy and comparison halt our progress.
When someone we know has set some of the same goals as us and we see them succeeding where we have not we then become jealous and compare what they have done or are doing with where we are or what we have done. Stop! We are all different and reach our goals in different ways. By looking at another's way of doing things and comparing them to what we are doing we begin to doubt what we are doing when perhaps we should take of notes and possibly rethink that way we are doing things. And don't let thoughts that they have an in, or they are just lucky, or whatever else comes into your mind about the other peson cloud your perspective. Keep moving ahead and possibly readjust to make it to your own goals.
The other thing may be that you are not surrounding yourself with postive people who have made goals and are making them happen. You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most of your time with. Make the people you associate with the good ones who will be positive about the goals you have set for yourself and help you to achieve them if required.
Decide what it is you want - Write that shit down and then make the damn plan!
AND...work on it!
Reread what I have said will sabotage your goals and then do the exact opposite!
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Paula Kaprocki, Life Coach, Massage Therapist, Infinite Possibilities Trainer, Author